Each time that I strive for answers, the changing colors of the sea tell me that I am not alone in my dubiety! That I too like the sea, am a creation of leisure that has always been interpreted in haste!
Quite often after I have put aside a book, thinking it’s not my cup of tea, I wonder if the author actually tried to convey something which I had missed in the pages I read. I guess I have always, as did Archana in her review. But then, I will not defend myself or my two years of research that went into this book.
The grammatical errors? Mixing of tenses? I look for my editor and surprisingly she smiles.
But then again, Archana does give me a lot of food for thought and yet again how womanhood and feminism are confused. How smoking is seen as a fault and how spoilage of tender minds are overlooked.
I am still pondering if I will ever allow my child to do this?
“I have a one year old whose idea of waking me up is to hit me squarely in the eye. Does this mean that he doesn’t “care” for me?”
Or if smoking is a fault?
“At the age of twenty-six, it was all my fault that many a worthy suitor refused to marry me because of my bohemian lifestyle and because I occasionally smoked.”
Gender has nothing to do with it, but if it is not “all her fault” for smoking, whose fault is it?”
Thanks for the review Archana: http://readingaftermath.blogspot.com/2012/01/calendar-too-crowded-sagarika.html
I read what Archana has to say in detail and it’s her individual take on it…there will always be a group of people who would not like your work and other group that will love your work and we can’t deny the fact that there would exist a group which would be neutral,yeah ?
It’s like you like a movie and I don’t…so everyone is free to express one’s view..we live in democratic country
Hugs
also an honest review is any given day better than a cooked-up-to-please review,no?
Absolutely and am not sad at all!
I love your maturity … Hugs sooper tight ones… u r absolutely correct!
Each one with their own views !! Everything is gud for you and the book. Hugs.
Exactly Uma .. hugs right back!
You did not let me down at all! I did have some issues, true, but the rest of the stories ( especially the prose-cum-poem and “Selling a body to gain a mind”) more than made up for it. I would gladly recommend the book to all my friends.
Hey Archana, thanks so much for the review. it enriched me for sure and yes every review makes sense for it’s the readers that keep the writers going. Do hop in again!
everyone has a different perspective. Like we were discussing there are some stories you may not relate to and some which strike a chord with you. Our opinions are a function of our life experiences and you have written your book from your perspective!
Like i told you yesterday – it’s better that people have an opinion of your book rather than not have an opinion on it at all
Exactly and am happy people are open about it!
Do u remember this line from the review ???
” I have a one year old whose idea of waking me up is to hit me squarely in the eye. Does this mean that he doesn’t “care” for me?”
My answer would be – Yes, he’ll stop caring for you, if u let it happen everyday and never make an effort to correct him. And that is what Sagarika has tried telling through that story. Being a mother of two teenagers, I’ve seen what many mothers fail to do with respect to their children, esp boys. They refuse to correct them, give in to their tantrums and what is not learnt at 5 years will never be learnt at all – with respect to sensitivity to other’s pains.
My review of A Calender Too Crowded.
http://myblawghh.blogspot.in/2012/02/calender-too-crowded-by-sagarika.html
Thanks and sorry for the late post on your review